Author: nirvan

The ego is denial incarnate

The ego is denial incarnate

  Ego is denial incarnate, means we will not observe our ego. We all believe we are our egos, we have no reason to observe it, question it, or change it. Our ego is our attachment to everything we believe and all the decisions we 

What is love?

What is love?

Love is misunderstood; love is not something you desire from someone. Love is your awakened open heart center. Once awakened, love can be shared and received. Not before. In love songs, replace the word need for love, and truth is served. Neediness masquerades as love, 

A teaching about joy

A teaching about joy

“If you are not happy, you are just not serious enough” is a quote I heard the other day; it inspired this writing. It is mostly true, because happiness depends on creating conditions for it, and for this we must usually be serious and motivated.

Reactive blaming kills relationships

Reactive blaming kills relationships

We react with blame to triggers, to a word, a look, a feeling, and we react to reactions. We commonly think our reactions are just how we are. We may know that our reactions and blaming are powered from our past, but we probably don’t 

Ego is our own worst enemy

Ego is our own worst enemy

  You may know you are your own worst enemy, but do you know why or how this has come about? Would you like to change this? The cause of this phenomenon everyone suffers from is attachment to ego, a survival mechanism that on one 

What is depression?

What is depression?

Depression is a corruption of your ego mind, caused by the crash of your conditioned hope program. Hope leads to hopelessness, because hope never fulfills its promise. Ever wonder why celebrities kill themselves? Suicide by famous rock stars and actors is hard for most people 

Depression is a timeline train wreck

Depression is a timeline train wreck

  This writing is from my insight into depression; what causes depression and how it is healed. We are conditioned to perceive life moving along a timeline from the past through the present into the future. In this writing, metaphorically, we are a train running 

Depression is an unresolved life crisis; it is not a mental illness

Depression is an unresolved life crisis; it is not a mental illness

  We are rarely prepared to experience a crisis, a traumatic event, a devastating betrayal, a death of a loved one, or the myriad surprises life may have in store for us. We get over, or through, or past a crisis or we do not.